Do People Have Free Will in Your Reality?

Can You Manifest Someone to be Different?

It’s the question I am asked most as a manifesting coach. Can you change a specific person’s behaviour?

There are people in our lives that make things difficult. The way they show to us might cause us difficulty in one way or another. Maybe it’s a romantic interest or partner, a work colleague, a friend, or a family member. There is something about them that just doesn’t sit well with you, makes you uneasy, irritated, anxious…the list goes on.

Maybe you already know about the law of assumption. You know that you can change your beliefs and see another version of reality, but surely that doesn’t apply to the people in it too. Well, it’s time to re-think free will. When we think of free will, we imagine everyone has the ability to say yes or no to our new assumption. We decide to think of someone differently in order to see that version of reality, but they can still carry on in the same old way because, well, they may not have any desire to change to accommodate us.

It’s Either Manifestation or it Isn’t

We cannot have this both ways. Either you can bend reality to your will or you can’t. Neville Goddard said that you cannot get anyone to do something that isn’t natural to them, but I disagree. I also wonder whether Neville was being authentically him with this statement because in one lecture, he spoke of imagining someone experiencing something and seeing that unfold for them simply because you intended it for them and imagined it. Again, you can’t have it both ways. When it comes down to it, the manifestation is for you and not the other person. You choose to experience something in your reality, you intend it, you feel it, you have no resistance to it. It has to show up.

With this in mind, people are energy as is everything else. If you start to think about a person in a new way, if you feel the energetic version in your 4d reality, then 3d has no option other than show you that version of them. This is your reality and not theirs. I get this is a tricky one to get your head around. I don’t understand why this is happening and I don’t care to. I have experienced huge changes in people this way. If it were true that you cannot change someone that isn’t good with those changes, there are people in my life that would not have shown differently to me.

The Trick When Manifesting New Versions of People is This

Don’t obsess over it. Don’t look for results. You won’t see them. This is what some refer to as quantum freezing. You freeze reality as it is right now by your constant observation of it. Stop looking, distract yourself and get on with life as it is. We cannot force a change in reality. It doesn’t work like that. This is not the law of I get what I want. It’s the law of vibration and that works with a healthy degree of detachment. Don’t allow your life to depend on someone else’s behaviour. Know that you can change your reality. Become aware of your dominant thoughts when it comes to specific people. if you are constantly backing up the version of them with more of the same thoughts, you will continue to see the same version. It’s how this works. It’s energy and nothing more.

Don’t over complicate it. As human beings we are good at that!